The traits listed below will bring you success beyond the court or playing field. Any great business or company is going to ask the same things of their employees. If you can develop these and perfect them as an athlete, you will have a leg up on the competition.
1. The number one thing coaches love in players is a never give up attitude. As a player, you should never give in no matter what the circumstances. If you develop this mindset as a player, it will take you many places in your personal life. You are going to lose and be knocked down, but can you get back up and give the same or better effort? The challenges in sports help prepare you for life. Coaches want players who give their best effort each time they set foot on the court or field. If you can look yourself in the mirror after every practice or game and can say you gave it your all, you are a winner.
2. Coaches absolutely love players who play with a competitive fire. One thing that all of the greats, (Jordan, Ham, Montana, Manning, Gibson, Ruth) have in common is an intense competitive drive. Coaches want players who are driven to become their absolute best. Players should not only compete with their peers, but more importantly they should constantly be competing and pushing themselves to become the very best they can possibly become. As a player, do you try to beat your personal bests every day in every drill? If not, you need to start.
3. Coaches love players with a team first attitude. One of the best responses a player can give a coach is, “Whatever is best for the team.” This might mean a person moves from a starting role to a reserved one. A coach wants players who want to play, and expect that attitude. However, we will never get to the level we want to be at or achieve success unless you are willing to give up playing time if it means your team wins.
4. Coaches want players who are committed to the team and program. If a player is truly committed, they do the right things on and off the court. They get good grades, have good attendance, and display great behavior. Being committed to the program also means giving back, and one of the best ways to do this is to be a positive role model for younger athletes. If a player is committed, they are early to practice and stay after to work on their game. They do not let anything besides faith, family, and education take precedence over their commitment to the team.
5. Coaches want players who know and accept their role on the team. Every good team needs quality role players. It is not possible for everyone to have the lead role, but it is possible for everyone to play an important role. Some players will get the majority of minutes and even the headlines, but team success cannot happen unless everyone accepts their role. Players should never try to undercut or bad mouth teammates in order to improve playing time. Coaches want players who are genuinely happy for the team’s and their teammates’ success. Players should not mope, display poor body language, or bad mouth any member of the team. If the player is experiencing a problem or frustration, they should seek a one on one meeting with the coach. Communicate directly with your head coach regarding all questions related to you or the team.
6. Hazing is forcing an individual against their will to do ridiculous or painful things. Hazing in any fashion will not be tolerated. A student participating in hazing will be suspended from the team for two weeks, including practice. Any captain participating in or tolerating hazing will immediately lose their captaincy and be suspended indefinitely. Hazing, no matter how “in fun” it seems, is inappropriate and will be dealt with severely. Coaches witnessing a hazing event or having knowledge of it without stopping and reporting it will be immediately suspended. All individuals need to be treated in a respectful manner. No student needs to “earn” the right to be on the team.
Players Need to Know
- Players who miss scheduled practices while being in school risk being unable to participate in the competitions. Continued unexcused absences could result in loss of sport credit. Absences due to illness or injury are excused by the school nurse or athletic trainer. Any return to participation after an injury or illness is at the discretion of the athletic trainer or, in some cases, the school nurse. If a player is tardy to practice, the player must bring a note from an adult explaining the lateness.
- All students are required to have the following four documents on file with the school nurse. These forms must be completed and submitted prior to the first day of fall practices or first day of school for students not participating in the fall sports preseason practices.
- Dismissals for game times as well as estimated return times will be posted each day in the Daily Bulletin and on the student's Hub page. All game times and dates are subject to change. Although this occurs infrequently, when it does it is due to circumstances beyond the control of the athletic department. Weather-related schedule changes are announced after 1:00 p.m.
- Players must be in school by 9:00 a.m. or they cannot participate in a game or practice that day without special permission from the division director and the athletics department. Players requiring this exemption are expected to request this special permission in advance.
- Players dismissed early from class for games must make arrangements with their teachers prior to dismissal to make up any missed work and/or complete tests or quizzes. Before they leave for their games, players are responsible for submitting all work due in class on that day.
- Transportation to away games is provided by the school on school days. Players must return on the van or bus unless they are going home with a parent or guardian who has communicated directly with the head coach. A player wishing to go home with another teammate’s parent or guardian must have written permission from his or her own parent or guardian. In some circumstances, Upper School players will be permitted to drive themselves to away games, provided that a permission slip is on file with the athletic department.
- Students in the Upper School need to arrange for transportation home at the conclusion of practice and/or after games. Students in ninth grade who must use the 5:30 p.m. Penn Charter bus can make arrangements with their coaches to be excused from practice early.
- Team members are expected to conduct themselves in accordance with Athletics
Department policies, the school’s honor code and Quaker principles. Inappropriate behavior, including fighting, during practice or games will not be tolerated.
- Players are responsible for maintaining their own equipment and uniforms. Most sports will require the student to provide or purchase some equipment or supplies. Coaches will inform team members of these needs at the start of the season. Some sports require students to provide for their own personal equipment (squash or tennis racquets, lacrosse helmets, baseball gloves, field hockey sticks). In cases where the cost of participation is prohibitive, parents should ask the athletic department for assistance. School-owned uniforms must be returned to the equipment manager on the last day of the season. Students failing to return all equipment and/or uniforms will be billed accordingly. Parents and players should be aware of the higher cost of purchasing a single replacement uniform.
- Varsity letters are awarded to Upper School players who meet the criteria as described by each varsity head coach. Middle School students receive certificates of participation.